By Catholic Leader
Peter Budgen
Hanar Keka turned 30 earlier this year and, because she was a long way from home, she decided to do something different to celebrate.
Peter Budgen
Hanar Keka turned 30 earlier this year and, because she was a long way from home, she decided to do something different to celebrate.
The young Catholic woman from Iraq spent the day on her own in Brisbane’s St Stephen’s Cathedral.
“I decided to take a break in the cathedral,” she said.
“I spent all the day in the cathedral. I think that was a big thing
for me – reflecting over the 29 years of the journey. It was my 30th
birthday.
“That was a good break for me – just staying away from everyone –
just me and the person that I love the most (Jesus), talking to him,
shouting at him – smiling, crying, telling him thank you for the
blessings …”
Hanar was midway through a two-and-a-half-year Master’s degree in
Educational Leadership at Australian Catholic University in Brisbane on a
scholarship from the Ursuline Sisters.
Archbishop Bashar Warda of Erbil, in northern Iraq, chose Hanar for
the scholarship so she could be part of his strategy of helping the
Church and the nation rebuild after the ravages of Islamic State,
especially in the areas of education and health.
Hanar has been working at the Church’s Mar Qardah School, in Erbil, and will return there when she has finished studying at ACU.
Hanar said she was smiling on her birthday in St Stephen’s “because I’m lucky”.
“I cry because sometimes it’s very hard to see the reality from a person who lived in a war,” she said.
“Sometimes it’s hard when these memories come. But there is always hope and I am so hopeful to see the new Iraq.”
What gives her hope are “smiles, children, education, good people …”
“And the most important thing is, without faith, there’s no hope, and
as long as we have faith there will be always hope,” she said.
Originally from Mosul, in Iraq, Hanar and her family had to flee after the United States’ 2003 invasion.
“We had to move …, because we are Christians, so it was not safe for
us, especially after we knew that (Muslim extremists) wanted to kidnap
my little brother,” she said.
The extremists had threatened to kidnap Hanar’s little brother, who was six years old at the time.
“Then my dad took the decision to leave the city,” she said.
“The only reason was because we were Christian, and Christians were a target at that time.”
In 2014, when Hanar was teaching in the Catholic primary school in
Erbil during the day and volunteering at a refugee camp in the evening
to support people who’d fled IS, an encounter with a particular child
had great impact on her.
“During one of the days I was in the camp and I was talking to a
child, he said, ‘I miss my dad’, and I just said to him, ‘Go and give a
hug to your dad’,” she said.
“And he said, ‘Oh, no, my dad is dead …’
“And it was a moment of shock for me because … (here was) a
six-year-old talking about how he saw his dad dying in front of him
because people killed him.
“This is where I felt that, ‘I’m so lucky. I’m blessed’.
“And then, with volunteering, I found myself.
“I found compassion … and I knew that life is about what we give.
“It’s not about what we expect, and, in the end, life is about love.
“It’s about the main message – the message that is love.”
For someone who had dreamed of having a career as a geologist, worked
to finish a degree in that field and even been invited to complete a
Master’s degree in it, this was all part of answering a higher call.
Hanar kept being asked to put aside her dream, to teach the children.
“And, in 2017, I got a phone call from the bishop, saying, ‘Hanar,
would you like to do your Master’s degree in Australia?’,” she said.